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HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS...
Posted July 16, 2012 by MZMUSE
VALIDATION, EMPATHY & INTIMACY... THESE ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT ASPECTS OF ANY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP... ALONG, WITH TRUST, RESPECT & RELIABLE COMMUNICATION; BETWEEN PARTNERS... THE REST SHOULD BE BLISSFULLY PEACEFUL & EROTICALLY INVIGORATING... FOR BOTH OF US. AS FOR ME... I MUST STILL SPEND MOST OF MY TIME RECLINED; PREFERABLY IN BED... OR, IN THE SWIMMING POOL; WHEN IT'S WARM & SUNNY, SUCH AS THIS WEEK.... HOWEVER, THERE ARE STILL TIMES, WHEN WE ALL NEED A BIT OF SOCIAL SUPPORT; WHICH IS WHY I'M NOW SCHEDULING: GROUP SESSIONS, PRIVATE LESSONS, FILM CLUB, TEA PARTIES, POOL PARTIES, SLUMBER PARTIES & ANY OTHER SORT OF POSITIVE GET TOGETHERS... STRICTLY FOR CONSENTING ADULTS OF MATURE MIND & GENTLE SPIRIT. BASICALLY, I'M GATHERING GROUPS FOR SOME REAL WORLD INTERACTIONS, ON A REGULAR BASIS... BE IT ONE ON ONE...OR, OTHERWISE; WE ALL NEED HELP SOMETIMES... ~MZ.M

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kundalini

http://biologyofkundalini.com/article.php?story=su...

Supra-sex

"Some day, after we have mastered the winds, the waves, the tides and gravity, we shall harness...the energies of love. Then, for the second time in the history of the world, man will have discovered fire." ~ Pierre Theilhard de Chardin
Both Jung and Sri Aurobindo believed that the soul is both individual and universal and that the physical and psychic exist simultaneously. Supra-sex you could say is the spiritual intercourse of the Global Brain—the communion of the overmind or Superman (Aurobindo). This communion is superluminal, nonlocal and probably involves instantaneous communication via scalar waves or sympathetic resonance. Supra-sex is a mysterious subatomic force that spans the globe. The experience of supra-sex makes it apparent to us irreverent humans that we live in a spiritual universe, an intelligent universe, far more profound than we could possibly imagine. There is nothing more powerful than the force of Supra-sex. It is the force of evolution and consciousness itself, the energy at the ground of manifestation. Future generations will know more about and honor it more deeply than us, for slowly humanity is being awakened by this evolutionary force.
The spiritual journey is driven by sex hormones, as the principle drivers to metamorphic alchemy and awakening. The urge to unite God with Goddess, and the urge to merge with a beloved runs on the same biological equipment, it is just lived at a different level of expression.

Bliss is the energy of transcendence, and when kundalini arises and the Heart opens it feels like a lover. For females it feels like a male lover, for males it feels like a female lover. For this reason it is commonly thought that the soul of each sex is the opposite gender. Hence the anima/animus of Jungian philosophy.

Spirit uses the sexual chemistry and apparatus in the metamorphic process, so that even though the mystics may not be actually engaging in sex with another human their systems are fully sexed, fully revved up and potent during the great Passion of the alchemy. If this energy is simply masturbated away or spent on gross level compulsive sex then the Great Passion will fall short of its mark. To be fully sexually potent doesn't necessarily mean one is actually engaging or even interested in sex, but that one is not repressing the full flow of Eros in the bodymind. At the mystic level supra-sex transcends, includes and amplifies normal-sex. Supra-sex is the total alchemy of transformation of which super-sex is a symptom or beneficial side effect.

Kundalini operates on the body’s sexual system to radically heightened degrees: in dreams that facilitate certain phases of the metamorphosis, in magnified sensory sensitivity, in heightened attraction or rather spiritualized attraction, higher sexual energy and sex hormone production and vastly increased levels of opening. But in fact kundalini simply uses the sexual system in the same way that it uses the nervous system, the immune systems, the endocrine system, the lymphatic system and the digestive system—to “evolve” the structures and systems of the bodymind. This process is transpersonal and related to species survival and evolution.

The transpersonal nature of the overmind or World Soul is recognized as one becomes a pawn in the hands of the Gods, with the ultimate objective of evolving and connecting the individual neurons of the Global Brain. Supra-sex transcends, includes and amplifies normal-sex.” The global brain wakes up through sexual attraction, and nothing is more wakeful and enlightening than the pull of supra-sex, and you don't even have to have sex for it to be so. It is the trickster nature of the Universe. Remember sex is not sex, it is the energy of the Universal existence…sex IS the universe...it is all the play of the charges, hemispheres, sexes and poles, and enlightenment proceeds via this cosmic intercourse of the marriage of opposites.
Union beyond all states is basically nondual intuition, or being one with the flow of Spiritual Eros. As far as action in the world goes, as long as we are an ego acting for or on the world this is still not the highest Dharma. Consider the concept of relationship AS the World—even 'sex' for worldcentric reasons. Coming from this highest ethical level then there would not be internal divisions that would prevent joint-Nirvana. This kind of relationship is perhaps the only kind of relationship that is deeply satisfying in the soul-sense, and thus fundamentally “Real.” Relationship AS the Universe.

Supra-sex is autopoietic and seems to be focused primarily on the spontaneous transpersonal evolution of consciousness itself. Because it is the most extreme experience of love and sex, we learn that human relationship is a subset of this much larger transpersonal agenda of Nature. Supra-sex cannot be described in words, for one can only know it by experience, thus I resort to Gurdjieffs idea of supra-sex to help clarify the distinction that this is something so beyond our usual concept and experience of sex that it defies both understanding and expression. There is a great piece on sex in Chapter 12 “Sex and Evolution” in Ouspensky's “A New Model of the Universe.”
Here he described the three types of sex.

Infra-sex: A non-understanding, terror and disgust of sex, arrested development or degeneration, sex abnormalities, underdeveloped sex, all perversions, either abnormal sex desires or abnormal sex abstinence, indifference to sex, exaggeration leading to inner degeneration, wastes energy. Disharmony between sex and other sides of life.

Normal-sex: Contains no danger, sex harmonizes with all other functions including emotional, intellectual and spiritual. Sex inwardly is completely justified in the normal man and this justification is based solely on the full coordination of sex with other aspects of life. Builds energy, awareness and inspires.

Supra-sex: The sex system is greatly magnified and subsumed into spiritual alchemy, such that normal sex eventually ceases. Supra-sex signifies the inner marriage or metamorphosis and is intimately tied into one’s life purpose and calling.

The Muse or Holy Spirit becomes prior to all else.

The male/female and the potential love between them is the main catalyst of the evolutionary force of: God/Goddess, Eros & Awakening. Whether the relationship actually occurs or not at the human level is irrelevant to this evolutionary force that proceeds despite us, imposing “its” will regardless. Spirit uses whatever means are necessary to break us open and force us to awaken. Alchemy between the sexes is the primary vehicle for the awakening of consciousness and the Global Brain itself. Kundalini represents a ripening and fruition of the psychosomatic life of the individual and the driver for collective awakening.

Kundalini is perfect love, that elevates all that is base and 'raises' all that is dead.

The mystical birth of humanity proceeds through the full realization of sex energy as the caldron of transformation. In Celtic lore the cauldron had three powers: inexhaustibly, regeneration, and inspiration. Of course the alchemical caldron is “The Holy Grail,” and it is by following the pure heart’s desire in search of The Grail that we undergo the journey of transfiguration. This is the central meaning of the Grail myth in preparing the way for realizing a global Camelot based on the vitues of justice, bravery and truth.

Mastery of the serpent power sustains the enchantment and regeneration of our world. While the inability to master it can be destructive. Mastery involves submission to rapture. That is, allowing ecstatic sublime currents that melt the entrenchment of the ego’s sense of separation, bringing freedom from fear and judgment, and the petty nature of resistance in general. Mastery of Kundalini is in effect mastery of the ego! Kundalini adeptness is the alchemy of individuation through the integration of ego and Self. That is the unification of the conscious and unconscious elements of the psyche and the establishment of the proper center. This inner center or cosmic consciousness is the steady state of intuitive knowledge or illuminated mind that develops from the harmonious nuclear fusion of the Tao within our very atoms. Mastery of kundalini involves dropping our resistance to this harmonious inner sacred marriage.

STAGES OF TELOPHILIA
Spiritual Relationship
The Greek prefix telo means “the end or complete” and philia is Greek for “love or loving.” Thus we can use the word telophilia to represent the highest form of relationship or the union of souls or joint alchemy. So I equate the phenomena of supra-sex with telophilia. Note these stages are the classic alchemical stages of soul development.

Another name we might call spiritual relationship is psychephilia, as psyche is both “soul” and “butterfly” in Greek and so apply reflects the metamorphic nature of soul union. These soul-relationships may not include sex but because they amplify kundalini they can be more energetically and intensely intimate and transformative than sexual relationships.

Following is an outline of the stages of soul relationship but to a certain extent all stages happen at once to varying degrees as well.

1. MEETING—Recognition, initiation, surges of energy in the head and solar plexus, enlivening of the genitals. Enlarging of ones field in relation to the other, heightening of alertness and energy level. Irresistible magnetic pull, constancy of attention and soul urge to be in each others presence.
2. QUICKENING—Spiritual acceleration, extreme heart opening, purging, purifying, nausea, awe, hope. Clearing, tidying up loose ends, nest building, talking to oneself, physical exercise to absorb tension. Alternating periods of hyperactivity (sympathetic) with heart expanding lethargy (parasympathetic).
3. RUBBERBANDING—Alternating surrender with periods of sensual indulgence as the ego tries to use and/or suppress the charge. Boundary testing, uncertainty, exploration and resolution of differences. Blowing off the cocoon through compression and expansion.
4. TOLERANCE—Bodymind gains faith, becomes stronger quieter and more peaceful. Learns to protect and allow the intense “opening” energy cycles of soul-merger. Rewiring to handle the amplified energy and kinesthetic senses.
5. SURRENDER—Attraction to spiritual intimacy as soul increasingly incarnates with the opening of the bodymind. There is a letting go of morbid thoughts and behaviors as trust develops. Eros progressively triumphs over Thanatos.
6. TRANSPARENCY—Proactive-YES AND Green-lighting Spirit. With conscious joint metamorphic alchemy there is a movement from deprivation states to co-Being. Sympathetic resonance causes the falling away of resistance and strengthens the ability to “enjoy” love.
7. SUBSTANTIATION—Maintenance of a mature equilibrium of holding the “We Space,” while still sustaining full individuation. Potent, creative, cooperative partnership

How to establish a Telophilius relationship:
First we have to talk about it for many years, then we seriously contemplate it quietly, then we start to imagine it in 3D, then we begin to become "attractive," then we manage to magnetize a perfect polar partner to us, then we enter the honeymoon and think we have found heaven on earth, then we are plunged into the hell realms to feel the full range of our self-betrayal and self-rejection, then we learn we specifically created exactly what we got, then we forgive all creation and especially ourselves, and then at last we enter a true tantric, supra-sexual, metamorphic, alchemical relationship.

“If we are going to create a more humane world, it’s important to discover how to form sustained relationships that fulfill our deepest needs and contribute to an atmosphere of caring that the culture is crying for.” Hugh Delehanty,

THE INTERACTIVE FIELD EFFECT
The Third Thing

“Health was a state of perfect subatomic communication and ill health was a state where communication breaks down. When we are ill our waves are out of sync.” 52 Lynne Mc Taggart, The Field.

By “following our bliss” as Joseph Campbell suggests we are following the ecstatic wave of Grace in which our waves are all in sync. The Ecstatic Wave is the flow between dissolution and structure, which is the natural speed of evolution without resistance. When we fall in sync in relationship the field effect is magnified, so imagine when we can do this consciously in relationship. What Grace. If anything, kundalini is an impersonal force that is trying to get us "connected." Connected both within ourselves and connected to the Cosmos—to fall in sync with the universe in a perfect state of Grace.

Removing that which gets in the way of the symphony of our joint state of Grace (being in sync) is how the container of the relationship “The Third Thing” or the field of unconditional love is preserved. And it is through this purified and substantiated field that we as a couple find a new relationship to the Universe and grace the world with our presence.

“In certain relationships, the level of profound close goodness is so great that any thing that gets in the way of that that is not pure, clear connection will feel incredibly bad to the degree that I will have to amend it or feel almost sick. My partner in this will feel it too. Our inclination is to exit the relationship, or withdraw, or become clingy, but none of those actions work except to cause further pain. The ONLY way out is THROUGH. With some other relationships I have, if things arise, it doesn't matter, because they are not obscuring this pure connection. But with this one, it is spiritually imperative that what has arisen that causes pain is dealt with. Each of us has to take extreme responsibility for our own feelings, and be brutally honest, completely open and non-defensive and able to listen in a space created purposely for the healing. When the problem is shared, the level of relief is extraordinary and it feels like a great healing has taken place, not only of the issue at hand, but of some greater older deeper issue that was triggered by the problem presented within our relationship. It feels like this indeed IS the purpose of the relationship. When these old hurts are dealt with and the air is cleared, it is as if nothing more needs to be done.
A great, huge love is felt that encompasses the whole world and we are each completely accepted "as is".” Jacqui Denomme

By the embrace of truth and through working on the blocks to harmony in our interactive field we become “As Gods” as our boundaries with the Infinite and the Eternal are dissolved.

Epistemology

Oh what sad iron clad defenses
Cripple our quivering hearts
So that we will not be broken by love
But be torn asunder from lack of loving
The Mystery see
Lets not even presume
The mind can know the least of things
Why limit the infinite
Kill what is not ours to kill
Why make small what is measureless
Hold what cannot be caught
No where to hide anyways
Soul has no prison
Lets stop the petty game
And live the truth
See what is really there
Beyond past's lies
Such luminous White
The music is champagne
In my blood

Epistemology or the theory of knowledge is the branch of philosophy that studies the nature and scope of knowledge. The term "epistemology" originated from the Greek words episteme (knowledge) and logos (account/explanation). Sophia is the highest virtue of the "contemplative" part of the soul.

Aristotle proposes the human soul has two main functions:
1. The ability to grasp “a prior knowledge”, whose virtue is theoretical wisdom (sophia).
2. The ability to grasp truths about the changeable world, whose virtue is practical wisdom.

SEEDING THE KUNDALINI...
Etymology

Kundalini means "the coiled power," a force which ordinarily rests at the base of the spine, described as being coiled there like a serpent. Awakening
When exercised into motion the kundalini rises from the base of the spine, and from there to top of the head, then merging with the crown chakra. When kundalini Shakti is perceived as a Goddess; when it rises into the head...it melds & unites itself; into the Supreme Being (Lord Shiva). Only then may the aspirant become engrossed in deep meditation and infinite bliss.<10><11> The arousing of kundalini is said by some to be the one and only way of attaining Divine Wisdom. Self-Realization is said to be equivalent to Divine Wisdom or Gnosis or what amounts to the same thing: self-knowledge.<12> The awakening of the kundalini shows itself as "awakening of inner knowledge" and brings with itself "pure joy, pure knowledge and pure love."
Unpreparedness

The kundalini can awaken; triggered by intense personal experiences such as: accidents, near death experiences, childbirth, emotional trauma, extreme mental stress, and so on. Some sources attribute awakenings to the "grace of God", or possibly to spiritual practice in past lives.

An awakening in one who is unprepared or without the assistance of a good teacher can result in an experience which has been termed as "kundalini crisis", "spiritual emergency" or "kundalini syndrome". The symptoms are said to resemble those of kundalini awakening but are experienced as unpleasant, overwhelming or out of control. Kundalini has been described as a highly creative intelligence which dwarfs our own. Kundalini awakening therefore requires surrender; it is not an energy which can be manipulated by the ego.
Physical and psychological effects

There are Physical effects of "kundalini crisis" pointing to a serious problem, rather than personal progress by positive "awakening". The following are common signs of an agitated or Blocked kundalini; such symptoms of this problem are commonly referred to as Kundalini syndrome:

Involuntary jerks, tremors, shaking, itching, tingling, and crawling sensations, especially in the arms and legs
Energy rushes or feelings of electricity circulating the body
Intense heat (sweating) or cold, especially as energy is experienced passing through the chakras
Spontaneous pranayama, asanas, mudras and bandhas
Visions or sounds at times associated with a particular chakra
Diminished or conversely extreme sexual desire sometimes leading to a state of constant or whole-body orgasm
Emotional upheavals or surfacing of unwanted and repressed feelings or thoughts with certain repressed emotions becoming dominant in the conscious mind for short or long periods of time.<18>
Headache, migraine, or pressure inside the skull
Increased blood pressure and irregular heartbeat
Emotional numbness
Antisocial tendencies
Mood swings with periods of depression or mania
Pains in different areas of the body, especially back and neck
Sensitivity to light, sound, and touch
Trance-like and altered states of consciousness
Disrupted sleep pattern (periods of insomnia or oversleeping)
Loss of appetite or overeating
Bliss, feelings of infinite love and universal connectivity, transcendent awareness
Etc.
NOW, CAN ANYONE GUESS; PRECISELY, WHERE MY SPINE IS SHATTERED?
Miss Confessionals
I found this site and figured I would try it out. A lot like Fetlife but that's cool I suppose.

I'm of course looking for subs. All that information can be found out by talking to me or checking out my profile. Smile
MZMUSE
HONESTLY...
Posted June 5, 2012 by MZMUSE
5/29/12 at 4:50 PM:

FIRST, I TELL YOU THESE THINGS... TO BE TRUTHFUL OF MY SITUATION...NOT TO FOCUS ON THE NEGATIVE NOR PLEAD FOR A PITY PARTY... FACTS ARE FACTS.

FUNNY; HOW SO MANY THINGS START OUT, AS MERELY TEMPORARY... ONLY TO EVOLVE INTO OUR DAILY ROUTINE...
ANYWAY, MY PHYSICIAN & MY MEDS; BOTH PROHIBIT MY DRIVING. WHILE MY PHYSICAL LOCATION & MY LACK OF FINANCES KEEPS ME FROM BUYING ANYTHING ON-LINE OR OFF .. SO BASICALLY, I'M HERE ALONE... EVERY HOUR OF EVERYDAY OF EVERY WEEK & MONTH; EXCEPT FOR MY MONTHLY TRIP TO THE DOCTOR & MY BIANNUAL VISIT TO THE HOSPITAL FOR CORTISONE SHOTS TO BE INJECTED INTO MY SPINE & SI JOINTS... I SHOULD GO 4 TIMES A YEAR... BUT, SINCE NO ONE HAS MY BACK... I CONSTANTLY FALL THROUGH THE CRACKS...

OTHERWISE... THIS IS NOT MY HOME; IT'S JUST A HOUSE... THAT I'VE REDESIGNED ON A SHOESTRING BUDGET... YES, I POURED MY HEART & SOUL INTO IT... BUT, JUST LIKE EVERYTHING ELSE... IF PEOPLE DO NO RESPECT OUR EFFORTS... ANY ENDEAVOR EASILY BECOMES A PRISON.

FRANKLY, I HAD HOPED TO HAVE SOME SORT OF SMALL WEB BASED BUSINESS BY NOW... SOME PERFECT EXCUSE TO TRAVEL, SHOP & REDESIGN A NEW LIFE FOR MYSELF... AWAY FROM THIS WHITE TRASH BLUE COLLAR BACKWATER TOWN. INSTEAD, I'M STILL HERE TRYING TO GET SOME ASPECT OF MY LIFE; MOVING FORWARD IN A TRULY POSITIVE DIRECTION. BUT, AS FOR A REAL HOME... I'VE NEVER HAD ONE.

BUT... I'D CERTAINLY LOVE TO CREATE ONE FOR MYSELF, ALONG WITH ALL THOSE OTHERS, WHO FREELY CHOOSE TO LIVE & LOVE, AS I DO.

PEACE & BE WELL,

SINcerely,

Me



"Mz. M

I have been thinking. It seems that you are a recluse stuck in your home and in a horrible family situation, in essence isolated. The distance and your medical condition make it almost impossible for there to be a meaningful relationship as you need constant help, physically, emotionally, and medically, to function.

So what I can gather from our emails is that you are looking for someone to totally take on your care, financial backing, and constant attention to your needs. I do not think I am up to this.

It seems almost more than anyone person can assume. Once you leave the house for a trip I fear that you would be unable to return and your children taken from you. I don't know if I can live with this type of burden."

DID I ASK YOU TOO?

"That was the impression I got."

NO, THAT'S THE IMPRESSION, THAT YOU DECIDED TO TAKE AWAY WITH YOU.

I MERELY TOLD YOU THE TRUTH OF MY SITUATION.

YOU LET YOUR OWN PRECONCEPTIONS & FEAR DO THE REST.

MEANWHILE, I'VE NEVER ASKED you NOR ANYONE ELSE TO TRADE PLACES WITH ME...I MERELY SEEK A REAL PARTNER, WHO'S MAN ENOUGH TO HANDLE THE TRUTH... SOMEONE, WITH A SERIOUS SPINE OF HIS OWN.
MZMUSE
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kundalini

http://biologyofkundalini.com/article.php?story=su...


Supra-sex


"Some day, after we have mastered the winds, the waves, the tides and gravity, we shall harness...the energies of love. Then, for the second time in the history of the world, man will have discovered fire." ~ Pierre Theilhard de Chardin


Both Jung and Sri Aurobindo believed that the soul is both individual and universal and that the physical and psychic exist simultaneously. Supra-sex you could say is the spiritual intercourse of the Global Brain—the communion of the overmind or Superman (Aurobindo). This communion is superluminal, nonlocal and probably involves instantaneous communication via scalar waves or sympathetic resonance. Supra-sex is a mysterious subatomic force that spans the globe. The experience of supra-sex makes it apparent to us irreverent humans that we live in a spiritual universe, an intelligent universe, far more profound than we could possibly imagine. There is nothing more powerful than the force of Supra-sex. It is the force of evolution and consciousness itself, the energy at the ground of manifestation. Future generations will know more about and honor it more deeply than us, for slowly humanity is being awakened by this evolutionary force.
The spiritual journey is driven by sex hormones, as the principle drivers to metamorphic alchemy and awakening. The urge to unite God with Goddess, and the urge to merge with a beloved runs on the same biological equipment, it is just lived at a different level of expression.

Bliss is the energy of transcendence, and when kundalini arises and the Heart opens it feels like a lover. For females it feels like a male lover, for males it feels like a female lover. For this reason it is commonly thought that the soul of each sex is the opposite gender. Hence the anima/animus of Jungian philosophy.

Spirit uses the sexual chemistry and apparatus in the metamorphic process, so that even though the mystics may not be actually engaging in sex with another human their systems are fully sexed, fully revved up and potent during the great Passion of the alchemy. If this energy is simply masturbated away or spent on gross level compulsive sex then the Great Passion will fall short of its mark. To be fully sexually potent doesn't necessarily mean one is actually engaging or even interested in sex, but that one is not repressing the full flow of Eros in the bodymind. At the mystic level supra-sex transcends, includes and amplifies normal-sex. Supra-sex is the total alchemy of transformation of which super-sex is a symptom or beneficial side effect.

Kundalini operates on the body’s sexual system to radically heightened degrees: in dreams that facilitate certain phases of the metamorphosis, in magnified sensory sensitivity, in heightened attraction or rather spiritualized attraction, higher sexual energy and sex hormone production and vastly increased levels of opening. But in fact kundalini simply uses the sexual system in the same way that it uses the nervous system, the immune systems, the endocrine system, the lymphatic system and the digestive system—to “evolve” the structures and systems of the bodymind. This process is transpersonal and related to species survival and evolution.

The transpersonal nature of the overmind or World Soul is recognized as one becomes a pawn in the hands of the Gods, with the ultimate objective of evolving and connecting the individual neurons of the Global Brain. The individual neurons being ourselves. This is why in 2000 I said, “Sex is not Sex.” Supra-sex transcends, includes and amplifies normal-sex.” The global brain wakes up through sexual attraction, and nothing is more wakeful and enlightening than the pull of supra-sex, and you don't even have to have sex for it to be so. It is the trickster nature of the Universe. Remember sex is not sex, it is the energy of the Universal existence…sex IS the universe...it is all the play of the charges, hemispheres, sexes and poles, and enlightenment proceeds via this cosmic intercourse of the marriage of opposites.
Union beyond all states is basically nondual intuition, or being one with the flow of Spiritual Eros. As far as action in the world goes, as long as we are an ego acting for or on the world this is still not the highest dharma. Consider the concept of relationship AS the World—even 'sex' for worldcentric reasons. Coming from this highest ethical level then there would not be internal divisions that would prevent joint-nirvikalpa. This kind of relationship is perhaps the only kind of relationship that is deeply satisfying in the soul-sense, and thus fundamentally “Real.” Relationship AS the Universe.

Supra-sex is autopoietic and seems to be focused primarily on the spontaneous transpersonal evolution of consciousness itself. Because it is the most extreme experience of love and sex, we learn that human relationship is a subset of this much larger transpersonal agenda of Nature. Supra-sex cannot be described in words, for one can only know it by experience, thus I resort to Gurdjieffs idea of supra-sex to help clarify the distinction that this is something so beyond our usual concept and experience of sex that it defies both understanding and expression. There is a great piece on sex in Chapter 12 “Sex and Evolution” in Ouspensky's “A New Model of the Universe.”
Here he described the three types of sex.

Infra-sex: A non-understanding, terror and disgust of sex, arrested development or degeneration, sex abnormalities, underdeveloped sex, all perversions, either abnormal sex desires or abnormal sex abstinence, indifference to sex, exaggeration leading to inner degeneration, wastes energy. Disharmony between sex and other sides of life.

Normal-sex: Contains no danger, sex harmonizes with all other functions including emotional, intellectual and spiritual. Sex inwardly is completely justified in the normal man and this justification is based solely on the full coordination of sex with other aspects of life. Builds energy, awareness and inspires.

Supra-sex: The sex system is greatly magnified and subsumed into spiritual alchemy, such that normal sex eventually ceases. Supra-sex signifies the inner marriage or metamorphosis and is intimately tied into one’s life purpose and calling.

The Muse or Holy Spirit becomes prior to all else.

The male/female and the potential love between them is the main catalyst of the evolutionary force of: God/Goddess, Eros & Awakening. Whether the relationship actually occurs or not at the human level is irrelevant to this evolutionary force that proceeds despite us, imposing “its” will regardless. Spirit uses whatever means are necessary to break us open and force us to awaken. Alchemy between the sexes is the primary vehicle for the awakening of consciousness and the Global Brain itself. Kundalini represents a ripening and fruition of the psychosomatic life of the individual and the driver for collective awakening.

Kundalini is perfect love, that elevates all that is base and 'raises' all that is dead.

The mystical birth of humanity proceeds through the full realization of sex energy as the caldron of transformation. In Celtic lore the cauldron had three powers: inexhaustibly, regeneration, and inspiration. Of course the alchemical caldron is “The Holy Grail,” and it is by following the pure heart’s desire in search of The Grail that we undergo the journey of transfiguration. This is the central meaning of the Grail myth in preparing the way for realizing a global Camelot based on the vitues of justice, bravery and truth.

Mastery of the serpent power sustains the enchantment and regeneration of our world. While the inability to master it can be destructive. Mastery involves submission to rapture. That is, allowing ecstatic sublime currents that melt the entrenchment of the ego’s sense of separation, bringing freedom from fear and judgment, and the petty nature of resistance in general. Mastery of Kundalini is in effect mastery of the ego! Kundalini adeptness is the alchemy of individuation through the integration of ego and Self. That is the unification of the conscious and unconscious elements of the psyche and the establishment of the proper center. This inner center or cosmic consciousness is the steady state of intuitive knowledge or illuminated mind that develops from the harmonious nuclear fusion of the Tao within our very atoms. Mastery of kundalini involves dropping our resistance to this harmonious inner sacred marriage.


STAGES OF TELOPHILIA
Spiritual Relationship


The Greek prefix telo means “the end or complete” and philia is Greek for “love or loving.” Thus we can use the word telophilia to represent the highest form of relationship or the union of souls or joint alchemy. So I equate the phenomena of supra-sex with telophilia. Note these stages are the classic alchemical stages of soul development.

Another name we might call spiritual relationship is psychephilia, as psyche is both “soul” and “butterfly” in Greek and so apply reflects the metamorphic nature of soul union. These soul-relationships may not include sex but because they amplify kundalini they can be more energetically and intensely intimate and transformative than sexual relationships.

Following is an outline of the stages of soul relationship but to a certain extent all stages happen at once to varying degrees as well.

1. MEETING—Recognition, initiation, surges of energy in the head and solar plexus, enlivening of the genitals. Enlarging of ones field in relation to the other, heightening of alertness and energy level. Irresistible magnetic pull, constancy of attention and soul urge to be in each others presence.
2. QUICKENING—Spiritual acceleration, extreme heart opening, purging, purifying, nausea, awe, hope. Clearing, tidying up loose ends, nest building, talking to oneself, physical exercise to absorb tension. Alternating periods of hyperactivity (sympathetic) with heart expanding lethargy (parasympathetic).
3. RUBBERBANDING—Alternating surrender with periods of sensual indulgence as the ego tries to use and/or suppress the charge. Boundary testing, uncertainty, exploration and resolution of differences. Blowing off the cocoon through compression and expansion.
4. TOLERANCE—Bodymind gains faith, becomes stronger quieter and more peaceful. Learns to protect and allow the intense “opening” energy cycles of soul-merger. Rewiring to handle the amplified energy and kinesthetic senses.
5. SURRENDER—Attraction to spiritual intimacy as soul increasingly incarnates with the opening of the bodymind. There is a letting go of morbid thoughts and behaviors as trust develops. Eros progressively triumphs over Thanatos.
6. TRANSPARENCY—Proactive-YES AND Green-lighting Spirit. With conscious joint metamorphic alchemy there is a movement from deprivation states to co-Being. Sympathetic resonance causes the falling away of resistance and strengthens the ability to “enjoy” love.
7. SUBSTANTIATION—Maintenance of a mature equilibrium of holding the “We Space,” while still sustaining full individuation. Potent, creative, cooperative partnership

How to establish a Telophilius relationship:
First we have to talk about it for many years, then we seriously contemplate it quietly, then we start to imagine it in 3D, then we begin to become "attractive," then we manage to magnetize a perfect polar partner to us, then we enter the honeymoon and think we have found heaven on earth, then we are plunged into the hell realms to feel the full range of our self-betrayal and self-rejection, then we learn we specifically created exactly what we got, then we forgive all creation and especially ourselves, and then at last we enter a true tantric, supra-sexual, metamorphic, alchemical relationship.

“If we are going to create a more humane world, it’s important to discover how to form sustained relationships that fulfill our deepest needs and contribute to an atmosphere of caring that the culture is crying for.” Hugh Delehanty,


THE INTERACTIVE FIELD EFFECT
The Third Thing

“Health was a state of perfect subatomic communication and ill health was a state where communication breaks down. When we are ill our waves are out of sync.” 52 Lynne Mc Taggart, The Field.

By “following our bliss” as Joseph Campbell suggests we are following the ecstatic wave of Grace in which our waves are all in sync. The Ecstatic Wave is the flow between dissolution and structure, which is the natural speed of evolution without resistance. When we fall in sync in relationship the field effect is magnified, so imagine when we can do this consciously in relationship. What Grace. If anything, kundalini is an impersonal force that is trying to get us "connected." Connected both within ourselves and connected to the Cosmos—to fall in sync with the universe in a perfect state of Grace.

Removing that which gets in the way of the symphony of our joint state of Grace (being in sync) is how the container of the relationship “The Third Thing” or the field of unconditional love is preserved. And it is through this purified and substantiated field that we as a couple find a new relationship to the Universe and grace the world with our presence.

“In certain relationships, the level of profound close goodness is so great that any thing that gets in the way of that that is not pure, clear connection will feel incredibly bad to the degree that I will have to amend it or feel almost sick. My partner in this will feel it too. Our inclination is to exit the relationship, or withdraw, or become clingy, but none of those actions work except to cause further pain. The ONLY way out is THROUGH. With some other relationships I have, if things arise, it doesn't matter, because they are not obscuring this pure connection. But with this one, it is spiritually imperative that what has arisen that causes pain is dealt with. Each of us has to take extreme responsibility for our own feelings, and be brutally honest, completely open and non-defensive and able to listen in a space created purposely for the healing. When the problem is shared, the level of relief is extraordinary and it feels like a great healing has taken place, not only of the issue at hand, but of some greater older deeper issue that was triggered by the problem presented within our relationship. It feels like this indeed IS the purpose of the relationship. When these old hurts are dealt with and the air is cleared, it is as if nothing more needs to be done.
A great, huge love is felt that encompasses the whole world and we are each completely accepted "as is".” Jacqui Denomme

By the embrace of truth and through working on the blocks to harmony in our interactive field we become “As Gods” as our boundaries with the Infinite and the Eternal are dissolved.
Epistemology or the theory of knowledge is the branch of philosophy that studies the nature and scope of knowledge. The term "epistemology" originated from the Greek words episteme (knowledge) and logos (account/explanation). Sophia is the highest virtue of the "contemplative" part of the soul.

Aristotle proposes the human soul has two main functions:
1. The ability to grasp “a prior knowledge”, whose virtue is theoretical wisdom (sophia).
2. The ability to grasp truths about the changeable world, whose virtue is practical wisdom.

SEEDING THE KUNDALINI...
Etymology

Kundalini means "the coiled power," a force which ordinarily rests at the base of the spine, described as being coiled there like a serpent.
Awakening

When exercised into motion the kundalini rises from the base of the spine, and from there to top of the head, then merging with the crown chakra. When kundalini Shakti is perceived as a Goddess; when it rises into the head...it melds & unites itself; into the Supreme Being (Lord Shiva). Only then may the aspirant become engrossed in deep meditation and infinite bliss.<10><11> The arousing of kundalini is said by some to be the one and only way of attaining Divine Wisdom. Self-Realization is said to be equivalent to Divine Wisdom or Gnosis or what amounts to the same thing: self-knowledge.<12> The awakening of the kundalini shows itself as "awakening of inner knowledge" and brings with itself "pure joy, pure knowledge and pure love."
Unpreparedness

The kundalini can awaken; triggered by intense personal experiences such as: accidents, near death experiences, childbirth, emotional trauma, extreme mental stress, and so on. Some sources attribute awakenings to the "grace of God", or possibly to spiritual practice in past lives.<15>

An awakening in one who is unprepared or without the assistance of a good teacher can result in an experience which has been termed as "kundalini crisis", "spiritual emergency" or "kundalini syndrome". The symptoms are said to resemble those of kundalini awakening but are experienced as unpleasant, overwhelming or out of control. Kundalini has been described as a highly creative intelligence which dwarfs our own. Kundalini awakening therefore requires surrender; it is not an energy which can be manipulated by the ego.<15>
Physical and psychological effects

There are Physical effects of "kundalini crisis" pointing to a serious problem, rather than personal progress by positive "awakening". The following are common signs of an agitated or Blocked kundalini; such symptoms of this problem are commonly referred to as Kundalini syndrome:

Involuntary jerks, tremors, shaking, itching, tingling, and crawling sensations, especially in the arms and legs
Energy rushes or feelings of electricity circulating the body
Intense heat (sweating) or cold, especially as energy is experienced passing through the chakras
Spontaneous pranayama, asanas, mudras and bandhas
Visions or sounds at times associated with a particular chakra
Diminished or conversely extreme sexual desire sometimes leading to a state of constant or whole-body orgasm
Emotional upheavals or surfacing of unwanted and repressed feelings or thoughts with certain repressed emotions becoming dominant in the conscious mind for short or long periods of time.<18>
Headache, migraine, or pressure inside the skull
Increased blood pressure and irregular heartbeat
Emotional numbness
Antisocial tendencies
Mood swings with periods of depression or mania
Pains in different areas of the body, especially back and neck
Sensitivity to light, sound, and touch
Trance-like and altered states of consciousness
Disrupted sleep pattern (periods of insomnia or oversleeping)
Loss of appetite or overeating
Bliss, feelings of infinite love and universal connectivity, transcendent awareness
Etc.
NOW, CAN ANYONE GUESS; PRECISELY, WHERE MY SPINE IS SHATTERED?


WE

HOW MANY MORE BREATHS; MUST WE TAKE IN ALONE?
HOW MUCH LONGER, UNTIL I MAY CALL YOU MY HOME?
HOW MUCH FURTHER MUST OUR LONELY HEARTS ROAM?
BEFORE, YOU WILL BEGIN TO CALL ME YOUR OWN.

FOREVER NEAR; YET, SO FAR AWAY...
I STILL CRAVE TO BE WITH YOU; EVERY MOMENT OF EVERYDAY.
FAR FROM YOU NOW; IT'S SO HARD TO BREATHE...
LONG FEVERISH DISTANCE, SO ACHY WITH NEED.

RIGHT NOW; DO YOU SO OFTEN FEEL; AS I DO?
SIMPLY CRAVING; THE MERE HEAT & NEARNESS OF YOU?
SOMETIMES, I TRULY SENSE THE TOUCH OF YOUR HAND.
STRONG THICK FINGERS, WITH FEATHERED DEMANDS...

THE TEXTURE & FEEL, AS YOU GLIDE ACROSS MY SKIN.
THE FEVERED HEAT; AS YOU CUM INTO ME; AGAIN.

CALMING OUR HEARTS,
RELEASING OUR FEARS...
EMBRACING US WHOLE.
THEN, SOOTHING OUR TEARS...

HOW MANY MORE MOMENTS, UNTIL WE'RE TOGETHER, NOW?
FINALLY TOUCHING & SHARING OUR INFINITE VOWS...
HOW MANY MORE MOMENTS, UNTIL YOU ARE HERE?
SO, MANY OPPORTUNITIES, WE'VE WASTED; MY DEAR.

HOW FAR INTO FUTURE, BEFORE YOU APPEAR?
HOW MUCH MORE TORTURE; CAN OUR SOULS EVEN BARE?

HOW MANY TIMES; HAVE YOU FANTASIZED ME THERE?
HOW MANY CARESSES GRASPED, FROM THIN~AIR...
HOW MUCH MORE OF ME CAN YOU HOPE TO RESIST?
KNOWING ALL; THAT I AM, ADORE & EXIST.

WHEN, WILL WE EVER BRIDGE THIS GAP BETWEEN US?
ALLOWING LOVERS TO MATE; MARS WITH VENUS.

HOW MANY LOST CHANCES; FROM THE CORNER OF YOUR EYE?
HOW MANY MORE TIMES; WILL YOU LET ME SLIP BY?

HOW MUCH MORE PAIN CAN OUR SOULS EVEN TAKE?
BEFORE OUR MINDS SNAP, FROM THIS SADISTIC ACHE?

YOU KNOW THE PASSIONS; I HOLD DEEP DOWN INSIDE.
YOUR STRAWBERRY SHORTCAKE; SWEET SOUTHERN RIDE...

YOU MUST FEEL MY DESIRE; MAKIN' YOU SWEAT...
NOW, TASTE MY PERFUME & FEEL ME ALL WET.

YOU'VE FELT MY SOFT KISS, UPON YOUR EAR...
SMELLED THE SCENT OF MY PRESENCE; OH, SO NEAR...

YOU DESIRE THE DEPTH OF SOUL, IN MY EYES.
CRAVING TO DECLARE HEAVEN, BETWEEN MY THIGHS.

SO MANY WAYS, TO FEEL ME BREEZE BY YOU...
SIREN'S BRUSH OF LUST; ADRIFT PHANTASMIC HUES.

MY INTIMATE OBSESSIONS; FULLY PROFESSED.
YOUR EXQUISITE HANDS; NOW, TRAVERSE UNDER MY DRESS...
FEATHER LIGHT TOUCHES, SO SULTRY & HOT,
PAUSING HERE & THERE, TO STROKE SENSITIVE SPOTS

OUR BODIES TINGLING,
PASSIONS MINGLING;
CUPID'S PYRE,
FLAMING HIGHER...

WAFTING & WANING;
AGAIN & AGAIN...
SOUL SUCKIN' CRESCENDO;
BEGINNING MY FRIEND.

ENRAPTURED,
ENVELOPED,
ENTRANCED,
& EMBRACED...
SWALLOWED & HALLOWED;
YOU NOW STRIPPED OF FAITH.

ALAS NOW, YOU SENSE; WHAT A REAL MUSE CAN DO.
TAPPED INTO YOUR PSYCHE, WITH MY FEMININE VIEW.
FEEL CLOSELY; THE LULL OF MY VOICE, IN YOUR EAR.
SOFTLY ENTREATING; TO GIVE WAY & DRAW NEAR.

FINALLY, WE'LL STAND; FACE TO FACE...
SUCCUMB TO THIS INFERNO; FALL INTO OUR EMBRACE...
MELDING OUR ESSENCE; SAVORING OUR RELIEF,
TAKING OUR FULL MEASURE, THEN EASING OUR GRIEF.
SAVORING EACH TEAR, OF JOY & OF PAIN,
EXPLORE DEEPEST EMPATHY; AGAIN & AGAIN.

A BARRAGE OF DELIGHTS; AS WE DRINK ONE ANOTHER IN...
FINALLY FEASTING; UPON OUR PASSION SEARED SKIN.
NEVER MORE FROM THEN; SHOULD WE ASK FOR A WINE.
SIMPLY US & OUR KISS; BLISS MANIFESTED DIVINE.

SO, CUM ON; AND TAKE THAT LAST STEP, BEBE.
PLEASE, DON'T SAY NO & DO NOT SAY, MAYBE.

THESE BONDS OF LOVE; SEEM NEVER CEASING...
OUR PAINS OF ABSENCE ARE EVER INCREASING.
STILL YOU STAY; SO FAR AWAY.
GONE AGAIN; ANOTHER LONELY DAY.
TO WASTE MORE PRECIOUS TIME; IT SEEMS.
RATHER THAN FIGHT; FOR THE MUSE OF YOUR DREAMS...

WHILE MY BEAUTIFUL BOUNTY IS WHAT YOU CRAVE MOST.
THIS GENUINE GODDESS; YOUR HEAVENLY HOST.
BUT, NO ONE MAY TELL YOU; WHAT TO DO.
WHERE TO GO, OR WHICH LOVER TO CHOOSE.

SO NOW, WHAT MORE; MAY I POSSIBLY DO?
BUT, LEAVE YOU ALONE, WITH YOUR PESSIMISTIC VIEWS...
HOPING EVENTUALLY; SOME DAY SOON, THAT YOU;
WILL REALIZE THE TRAGEDY OF DOUBTING YOUR MUSE.

WRITTEN BY: ME
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How do You identify?

TERRIBLY TWISTED... MISTRESS...SENSUALIST, SOUTHERN BELLE, MULTI~MEDIA ARTIST, TANTRA & TAI-JI SENSAI, SEXUAL SURROGATE...CULTURAL CONNOISSEUR, MILF, LIFESTYLE COACH... FORMER CORRECTIONS OFFICER, ROTC-CHICK, FOSTER PARENT, COMMUNITY VOLUNTEER & ABUSE COUNSELOR...

1. The term BDSM covers a lot of ground.

What's Your angle?

B = BONDAGE D = DISCIPLINE S = SENSUAL M= MANAGEMENT

2. How do you identify?

ANOTHER DEFINING MOMENT...

MUSE: n.

1. Feminine personification, of a: creatively, poetically &/or artistically fruitful nature.

2. An inspirational source of knowledge, as well as, a guiding spirit, to those in need. 3. A consistent state of inspirational meditation.

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SENSUALIST: n.

1. A person, who revels, in the more sensuous aspects, of life. ~*~

DOMINA: n.

1. (Old. Eng. Law) Lady; - A title given to ladies, who hold authority, in their own right.

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LADY:

1. A well-mannered and considerate woman, with high standards of behavior.

2. Woman regarded as empathetic, ethical and responsibly virtuous.

3. Woman who is the head of a household.

4. A polite way of referring to a woman.

5. An attractive woman, to whom a gentleman is romantically attached.

Lady: Adj.= a female Chieftain <Old English>

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MISTRESS: n.

1. A woman, who has a continuing sexual relationship, with someone other, than her husband.

2. Woman in a position of authority, control, or ownership, as the head of a household.

3. Woman who owns or keeps animals: a cat sitting in his Mistress's lap.

4. Woman who owns a slave.

5. Woman with ultimate control over something: the Mistress of her own mind.

6. Woman who has mastered a skill or branch of learning: a Mistress of Liberal Arts.

7. Mistress; Courtesy title, when speaking too or about a woman.

8. Woman schoolteacher.

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SOULMATE: n.

1.One of two OR MORE persons COMPATIBLY BONDED, AS ONE within A MUTUALLY AGREEABLE STATE: disposition, point of view, & sensitivity.... BENEFITING EVERYONE CONCERNED, WITH THE OVERALL SENSUAL SECURITY OF AN ACCEPTING FAMILIAL FOUNDATION.
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